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You Can Never Win In A Relationship With A Narcissist

You Can Never Win In A Relationship With A Narcissist

Is he a narcissist?

So you’re dating this guy and you think he’s a great guy. It could be your, new boyfriend. You could be dating him a couple of months. it could be your husband and you want to know, is he a narcissist?

what is a narcissist?

Well, we’re going to go over. Exactly. What a narcissist is. If you’re dating a narcissist, they usually come on very strong. A lot of times, narcissists are very, very charming in the beginning. They’re gonna shower you with attention, shower you with affection. They’re going to call you constantly. They’re going to text you.

They’re going to tell you how much they love you so much. They’re really gonna overwhelm you with attention in the very, very beginning. And then as the relationship goes on, it could be a couple months. It could be a year down the line. Things are going to change. What’s up is gonna happen is it’s going to be all about him.

How to tell if youre in a relationship with a narcissist

he’s going to start to blame you for things that are going wrong in the relationship, he’s going to start putting you down because when he puts you down, it empowers him. He could put you down the way you dress. The way your actions are how you deal with your family, how you deal with the kids, um, how you deal with his family.

A narcissist is always going to put you down in some way. It’s always going to be your fault. He’s never ever going to take the blame. He’s going to switch the blame and put the blame on you. So anytime something goes wrong, it’s going to be your fault for going wrong. Whether the meal wasn’t prepared, right?

Whether you go out with friends and something happens, or people have words, you’re, you’re going to be to blame for everything that goes wrong. When you’re dealing with a narcissist, a lot of times narcissists, because they’re very full of themselves. They could cheat down the road. And they’re going to blame you and say, you’re the reason they cheated, or they’re going to blame you for anything going wrong in their lives.

Narcissists are all about themselves. They’re all about control. A lot of time people that are narcissist. They’re very controlling because in their childhood they didn’t have control. You’ll find with a lot of narcissists. When they were growing up, they felt they didn’t have control, certain situation that they were in when they were growing up.

And later on, a lot of times, these people become narcissists and they feel that need for control. And they’re going to try to control you in the relationship because it empowers them. Then what happens is as time goes on, they’re going to keep putting you down. They’re going to keep flipping the blame on you.

And then. When they’re ready, they’re going to leave you okay. For either somebody new or they’re going to keep you over around N and he putting you down and abusing you. Um, it could be verbally, it could be physically, um, emotionally. So keep that this in mind, a lot of times narcissists are going to try it isolate you from your family, from your friends, because they’re afraid that your family and friends.

Are going to influence you. So they’re going to try to isolate you. They’re going to tell you all those friends are no good or your family doesn’t know what they’re talking, talking about or were there they don’t have your best interest. So a narcissist is that right? Try to isolate you from your family and your friends.

They’re going to want you. To always be available for them. They’re not going to want you to have your own mental strength from other people. So they’re going to try to isolate you from that. Then there could come a time where narcissist may want to replace you with somebody else, or you may want to leave the relationship.

Now, if you want to leave the relationship. On your own. And you said, well, you know what? I’ve had enough with dealing with this person. I’ve had enough with this person putting me down with this person, blaming me. The star is going to chase you because you’re going to feel that need for control. They’re not going to want to let you go unless they have somebody.

To replace you that they could do that to somebody else that control issue with somebody else. So if they don’t have somebody else, they’re going to chase you. They’re going to bombard you with calls, Texas. And they’re going to try to bring you back and draw you back in. Whether it’s charming being very nice.

And if that doesn’t work, they can be very, very mean. So keep that in mind. They’ll do whatever they can of narcissists to try to draw you back in. And if they do have somebody to replace you, then they may be able to walk away from you. And you you’ll be lucky, but just keep that in mind. If, if you’re dating somebody or you’re in a relationship with somebody and they keep.

And you’re you keep blaming yourself. It’s not, you don’t blame yourself. A lot of times the narcissist will say, Oh, well, that’s you? Yeah, you’re the one. You’re the reason this went wrong or you’re the reason that went wrong and you sit there and you second guess yourself and you say to yourself, Oh, should I have not said that?

Oh, maybe I should have done this better. Maybe I should have done that better. No, this is just somebody. That’s a narcissist that as this control, that’s trying to control you by putting you down. It’s empowering, right. Them. So keep that in mind and be aware of that. Of the type of individual that you’re dealing with.

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