Interesting Psychology Team
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Question of
When dating someone new, how important is it that they have a stable career and income?
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Extremely important
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Somewhat important
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Not very important
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Not at all important
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Unsure
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Question of
How much does your partner’s attractiveness and style matter to you?
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It’s everything – they need to be very good looking
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It’s pretty important – they should put effort into their looks
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It’s somewhat important – they should have decent style
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It’s not important at all – personality is what matters
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Unsure
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Question of
If your partner’s political views differed from yours, would that be a dealbreaker?
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Absolutely – we must align politically
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Potentially – political differences could be challenging
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Not at all – political views don’t matter to me
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Unsure – it depends on the specific views
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I don’t pay attention to politics
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Question of
How important is shared taste in music, movies, books, etc. in a relationship?
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Very important – we must like the same entertainment
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Somewhat important – some overlap would be nice
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Not very important – different tastes are fine
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Not at all important – irrelevant to the relationship
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Unsure
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Question of
Would you date someone who is messy or unorganized?
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No way – I need a very tidy partner
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Probably not – cleanliness is important
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Maybe – I could overlook some messiness
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Yes – messiness doesn’t bother me at all
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Unsure
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Question of
How much emphasis do you place on your partner’s education level and intelligence?
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I exclusively date people with graduate/professional degrees
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Education and intelligence are quite important
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They should have a baseline competence, but prestige doesn’t matter
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Education level doesn’t matter at all to me
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Unsure
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Question of
If you wanted children, how important would it be that your partner also wanted kids?
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It’s a complete dealbreaker if we differ on wanting kids
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It’s very important we both want children
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I could potentially compromise on differences in desire for children
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It doesn’t matter to me if they want kids or not
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I don’t want kids
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Question of
Would you continue a relationship if your sex drives were incompatible?
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No – sexual compatibility is imperative
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Likely not – differences in sex drive often cause tension
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Potentially – it depends how different the drives are
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Yes – sex drive differences don’t have to be dealbreakers
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Unsure
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Question of
Could you be happy with someone who never wants to travel?
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Absolutely not – I need a partner who loves travel as much as I do
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Probably not – travel is too important to me to give up
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Possibly – I could deal with traveling less
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Yes – I don’t care about shared travel interests
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Unsure
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Question of
If your partner consistently had dramatically different views from you in arguments, could you still have a happy relationship?
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No – frequent conflict due to disagreements would ruin the relationship
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Not likely – some conflict is inevitable but our worldviews must be somewhat aligned
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Maybe – it depends how much the disagreements actually impact day to day life
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Yes – different views could even enliven the relationship
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Unsure
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Question of
How important is sharing religious/spiritual beliefs with your partner?
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It’s absolutely essential we share the same faith
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It’s very important we share similar beliefs
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Some differences are okay as long as we respect each other
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Religious beliefs don’t matter at all to me in a relationship
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Unsure
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