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Question of
You’re running late to an important meeting. Traffic is backed up for miles. What do you do?
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Turn on relaxing music and just chill. What happens happens.
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Get increasingly anxious and frustrated as you sit in traffic.
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Try backroads and creative routes to get there faster.
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Call/text to let them know you’ll be late.
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Pull over and take 10 deep breaths to calm down.
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Question of
You have a big project due tomorrow and you’ve barely started. How do you react?
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Procrastinate more because the stress is too much.
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Panic and work in a frenzy to try and finish.
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Buckle down and work efficiently to get it done.
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Ask for an extension or help finishing it.
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Make a plan and tackle it one step at a time.
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Question of
You notice your heart racing and mind racing when stressed. How do you cope?
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Listen to music or watch TV to distract yourself.
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Vent to friends and family about what’s stressing you.
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Exercise or go for a walk to burn off the stress.
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Journal your thoughts and worries to process them.
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Practice breathing exercises or meditation.
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Question of
Your boss just gave you tough feedback at work. How do you respond?
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Shut down and avoid your boss.
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Lash out in anger about the “unfair” feedback.
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Listen calmly and take notes on what to improve.
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Break down in tears from feeling overwhelmed.
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Thank them politely and say you’ll reflect on it.
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Question of
You have a tense disagreement with your partner. What happens next?
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Pretend nothing’s wrong and ignore the issue.
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Yell and fight more to get your feelings out.
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Take space to cool off, then talk it through.
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Apologize and back down, even if you’re right.
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Suggest a compromise or agree to disagree.
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Question of
Your friend cancels plans with you last minute. What goes through your mind?
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They must not enjoy spending time with me.
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I can’t believe they bailed again! So annoying.
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Hopefully everything is okay. I’ll check in with them later.
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This ruined my whole day…now what do I do?
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Plans change sometimes. No big deal!
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Question of
You have a big presentation to give tomorrow. How do you prepare?
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Stay up all night stressing and making slides.
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Rehearse like crazy until you know it perfectly.
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Visualize giving it successfully and get a good night’s rest.
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Ask someone else on your team to present instead.
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Practice to feel prepared but accept you might mess up.
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Question of
Your inbox is overflowing with unanswered emails. How do you tackle it?
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Freeze up and ignore it, feeling too overwhelmed.
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Blast through replies quickly just to get it done.
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Methodically answer them one at a time.
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Ask for an extension on replying if you need it.
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Write a quick reply now, schedule time to write thoughtful responses later.
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Question of
You have a tense family dinner where people are arguing. What’s your go-to coping mechanism?
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Drink lots of wine to numb the tension.
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Get sucked into the drama and fight with everyone.
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Mediate and encourage people to find common ground.
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Go silent and internalize the hurtful comments.
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Redirect the conversation to lighter topics.
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Question of
The scale says you gained a few pounds. How do you respond?
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Fall into an shame spiral about your body.
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Double down on extreme dieting to quickly lose the weight.
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Acknowledge it but know your worth isn’t tied to your weight.
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Have a good cry and vent to someone about feeling fat.
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Remind yourself weight fluctuates naturally and focus on healthy habits.
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Question of
You get some unexpected medical bills in the mail. What do you do?
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Toss them aside and pretend they don’t exist.
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Panic about how you’ll pay them with your current budget.
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Call the provider to see if you can set up a payment plan.
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Vent on social media and crowdsource advice.
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Remind yourself it will work out eventually, then make a budget.
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Question of
Your phone dies while you’re out and you can’t access it for hours. How do you cope?
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Constantly borrow friends’ phones to check for updates.
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Feel anxious not knowing what you’re missing out on.
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Enjoy the digital detox time. Out of sight, out of mind.
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Leave the event early to go home and charge your phone.
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Feel mildly annoyed but make the best of the situation.
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Question of
You sleep through your alarm and wake up late. What do you do?
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Go back to bed and call out of work – too stressed to go in late!
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Rush out in a frenzy, skipping breakfast and your routine.
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Adjust your routine quickly to still make it work – multi-tasking!
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Sheepishly call your boss to say you’ll be late because you slept in.
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Take a few breaths, move at a brisk pace, and know it’ll be okay.
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