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6 – They’re Humble
It seems as if there’s always that one person who needs to one-up everything you say or do. But arrogance is not becoming, and it won’t earn respect. Successful people are humble and see themselves as equal to those around them. This down-to-earth perspective earns them respect, as others see their authenticity.
7 – They’re Open-Minded
Life isn’t black and white, although many people see it that way. These stubborn views often foster toxicity in both their personal and professional lives. When you can see all the gray areas of life, you’ll be more open-minded to other people’s perspectives.
That doesn’t necessarily mean that you agree with everyone, but you can see, understand, and respect their ideas. Successful people actively listen to others. This goes past merely hearing – and turns to understand. When you listen without interrupting, mirror emotions, and seek clarification, you can engage with people’s feelings and ideas in a way that makes them feel heard, and that will earn you respect.
After speaking with someone, hold onto their words. If they brought up a better approach or a fresh perspective, consider their ideas with an open mind. Even if it doesn’t change your mind, you can still foster mutual respect by being open to what they have to say.
8 – They Stand Up For Others
We’ve all encountered a bully. They are abusive people who harass, intimidate, and instill fear in others. And it happens in far more places than the schoolyard. You might see bullying at home, in the office, or in religious groups.
Successful people don’t stand by and watch others get pushed around. They refuse to allow bullies to disrespect or intimidate them or anyone else. They stand up for what is right, and this earns them respect.
9 – They Keep Their Word
Successful people are reliable, and they always keep their word. A long time ago, before contracts, your word and reputation were all you had. If you say you’ll do something, you must do it to earn trust and respect. If your word means nothing, why should anyone believe you? To be respected, whether, in your personal or professional life, you must be true to your word.
10 – They Aren’t Afraid To Apologize
A lot of people find owning up to their mistakes difficult. Successful people are different. They are the first to confess to mistakes, big and small. They are not afraid to address their failures, even when they involve offending others. Successful people aren’t too proud to apologize, and they are aware that genuine forgiveness may take time.
When you apologize to someone, you have no control over whether they will forgive you or not. And even if forgiveness never comes, you should still do the honorable and respectable thing and admit your mistakes.
Main Takeaways
Of course, everyone wants to be respected – but not everyone deserves respect. It doesn’t come automatically or quickly. You have to earn it. Just because someone’s in a position of power doesn’t mean they deserve respect. If you want people to respect you, always remember to consider their opinions, thoughts, and feelings.
