Interesting Psychology Team
5 – Respond to Her Text
Okay, some people aren’t big texters. But if she texts you, you should respond. Maybe that doesn’t mean texting back – you call her or FaceTime her instead. You might have big thumbs. It’s difficult, but don’t leave her on read. It’s rude.
Maybe you set a special ringtone for her so that you know it’s her when you’re knee-deep in a killer game of Mario Kart. Then, call for an intermission between rounds so that you can check back in with her. You never know. Your friends might need to do the same, but they’re not as thoughtful as you and don’t have a special ringtone set up for their partner.
You’re a leader. If you’re in a situation where you can’t text back, like while you’re at work or when you won’t have access to your phone, set that expectation beforehand, so she’s not left wondering what you’re doing. Women can have quite the imagination when they’re waiting for a reply.
6 – Be Silly Together
A partner that can make you laugh is one of the greatest things in the world. And you have to admit that someone who finds you as funny as you find yourself can be a pretty big ego boost.
Yes, women like to feel protected and cared for, but they also want someone they can be silly with and have fun with. Don’t be afraid to let loose and have some childlike fun.
Whether you sing and dance while making breakfast or play dress-up in a hat store, be spontaneous and have fun together!
7 – Take Extra Special Care of Her When She’s Not Feeling Well
Being sick sucks. Give your girl some extra special pampering when she’s not feeling well. Go to the store unexpectedly and come back with some medicine and some of her favorite snacks. Make her soup. Set up a bath for her. Wrap her up in her favorite blanket.
Then, do what you can to help out with any chores like washing the dishes or taking out the trash, so that when she feels better, she doesn’t come back to a boatload of to-do’s waiting for her.
8 – Watch What She Wants to Watch
Spending time together in front of the TV is one of the easiest things to do as a couple. Now, you don’t always have to watch what she wants to watch. In fact, it should be a balance. But when there’s something that’s really important to her, give up the remote.
Chances are you’ll probably just be scrolling on your phone anyway. If you really want to show up and show out, you could give her a foot rub while watching her favorite show or movie.
Relationships are about give-and-take. Who knows what you’d get in return.
9 – Show Her Spontaneous Displays of Affection
Spontaneous displays of affection will surely make her smile. It could be the smallest thing, like a touch on the shoulder or a kiss on the forehead.
Don’t underestimate how far a small gesture like this goes. It costs you nothing but a few seconds of your time, and it gives her butterflies. It’s a win-win for everyone.
