Interesting Psychology Team
1. The Rebellious Child Cheater
This cheater is the guy who is constantly getting into a mother-child relationship with women. This Brotha feels powerless because his woman is the dominant one in the relationship. He has a lot of internal conflicts because he wants to be looked at as a man, but he’s afraid to leave the comfort zone of a mother figure.
He’s afraid of the responsibilities of manhood, so he regresses to the role of a child. He will often engage in childlike activities like excessive video game playing or bragging about the new sneakers he is going to get.
So a woman might be dating a guy who is twenty-eight years old, but he has the thought processes and reasoning of a fifteen-year-old. And this frustrates a lot of women. When someone has the biological appearance of an adult, it’s only natural for you to deal with them on an adult level. But in the mind of a guy like this, he is still a child. And just like you don’t expect mature, responsible behavior from a fifteen-year-old, you shouldn’t expect any mature, responsible rational behavior from a grown man with a childlike demeanor.
Whenever this Brotha is challenged or his powerlessness is acknowledged in some way by his woman, instead of trying to communicate and express himself like a rational adult, he
does what many children do in these situations: He rebels.
This guy takes on the “I can do what I want to do” mentality, and he sneaks off and has sexual relations with other women. He does this strictly as an act of defiance. It is his way of indirectly showing his main woman that he cannot be controlled 100 percent.
2. The Delayed Player Cheater
When you don’t complete something, you will want to finish it at some point in your life. And most men in our society have to go through their player stage. Some men get their player stage over with early in life, some guys go through it much later.
The delayed player is the guy who didn’t get to go through his player stage during his teens and twenties because he got married at a young age. When he was young, he was so happy that a female gave him some play, he went on and tied the knot with her right away. Now that he’s older, more established, and more financially stable, he is getting the kind of play from other women that he didn’t get when he was younger.
So now he wants to go through his player stage, and get a taste of some of the other females that are out there on the market. But he still sincerely loves his wife and he doesn’t want to leave her. This is also referred to as a midlife crisis.
These middle-aged guys will start purchasing fancy cars that they wished they had as a teenager. They start dressing in fly clothes they couldn’t afford as a teen. And they start trying to have sexual relations with different females, which is also something they wish they could have done when they were teenagers.
